Saturday, January 9, 2021

same pages

Bethany and I got the opportunity to connect this afternoon.  While we had texted here and there, I don't think we had spoken for more than 2 minutes since the last failed transfer.  Everything we spoke about wasn't about this journey.  It was like two friends catching up.  We talked about the holidays with our families, things that have been getting on our nerves, etc.  We did also talk a little bit about expectations (or lack there of), thoughts of the timeline, and potential next steps if this third try doesn't work.

We have become friends, which is really nice.  Before while we used to constantly text, it was almost like we were indebted to each other - not that we were, but it was like we felt like we had to respond immediately.  Both of us, for the same unknown reasons.  Now, we are at a point where we can get back with eachother via text or call a day or two later and there is no worry, concern, or frustration.  That is a really nice part of where we are in our relationship.

Meds start Monday!  Onward and upward!

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